Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Survival


I finished reading Deep Survival by Laurence Gonzales last night. I have really enjoyed some of this "pop" psychology stuff over the last few years. He is certainly not up with Gladwell (who he quotes at one point) but is very interesting. He is very fixated on his father's survival in a dramatic WWII bomber which fell out of the sky. The focus is understandable but he goes with it a little too much as the supporting evidence for so many of his ideas that its hard to buy the universal application he wants.

That being said, there were a number of compelling stories and ideas in his book. Most of all it made me think about how I react to high stress or emergency situations. I am at my best in making decisions if I can remain calm, not paralyzed into non-action, but cool enough to not overreact to the emotions of the situation and clear enough to undestand the gravity of the situation, not panic, and come up with a proper response. It sometimes seems annoying when a person in this situation is calm, however they seem to be the ones that can respond most effectively.

While his focus on survival dealth mostly with jungles, open seas, and prision camps I think some of this advice applies to many of the more delayed disasters in our life as well. He stressed the importance of planning but also being willing to adjut that plan based on the current reality. When we begin to vear off course we often start finding signals to conform the altered path with the intended plan. We can turn in unfamiliar rock into a "familiar" marking post on our planned path. Balancing our best plans and intentions with the changing reality is not easy but seems sensible in long term and short term "survival" sitations

On the scientific side of his research I like the idea of the mental and emotional mapping that we do. Our quick decisions are often based on instinct built from previous experiences. When placed in an ufamiliar sitatuion our limited experiences are often not prepared to guide us to the best responses. It's okay to seek advice and trust the experts. It's usually not okay to make tough decisions when your tired, stressed, and just want to get home as soon as possible. I had a great law professor that reminded the class to "never go into a negotiations on a full bladder"

Gonzales spoke a lot about his own passion, flying. There was a lot of balance between risk and reward. His advice is not to stay home and shelter ourselves; he sees value in pushing ourselves and the risks that often bring excitement. As I was reading, a recent conversation with an air traffic controller kept popping into my head. He was cool as a cucumber about sending jets in mid-flight on course only five hundered feet apart (he understands the panic of those who call in when they see such a "disaster) but also said "there are bold pilots and old pilots but no bold old pilots."

I guess we do our best to push ourselves to our limits without crossing a line of brazen boldness but even Gonzales had to acknowledge that his father's only explanation for survival when the other 9 men on his plane died was simply "I got lucky."

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Post #1


This is my first post. I hope to continue with thoughts about books, school, teaching, kids, or even just the weather.

I am currently working through the Christmas break and trying to balance my free time between "useful" reading and fun activities. I finished the most recent installment of the "Enders Game" series. It had some great quotes about parenting and the difficulty of letting our children make their own mistakes without blaming ourselves. I also read Ishmael Beah's memoir of being a child soldier in Africa. I couldn't stop thinking about my own life at the time he was living through horrible events. I though I was going through tough times in high school and starting college; I had no idea of the daily struggle for life and death the people halfway around the world were having. I certainly could have said at the time that I knew others were struggling but to put a single human face on the situation and compare it with my own at the same time is a bit sobering. Finally, I am working through "The White Russian," a mystery set in the months before the first Russian revolution. What a nasty time. I am usually annoyed by much of the character developing side plots when I just want a good mystery but am enjoying the evolving story of the main character and the struggles to gain some sort of atonment from his family. I still don't know who dunnit'.